In-Laws Try To Make Me Feel Guilty over Grandkid All The Time?

My in-laws didn't treat me well formerly and now they keep rubbing in how they never see their granddaughter. I decided to be a stay at home mom and love caring for her all day long but they seem to think this is ridiculous and that I should be going to work and leaving my daughter with them. My bow told his mother that I got money to finish my college degree and now she keeps telling the baby that she's going to have to get used to be at their house cause I'm going back to school. I never said I was going to school (I'm going to be taking on-line cles while I watch her). I hate it....they make me feel guilty all the time for wanting to be with my own child! It's driving me nuts....anyone out there with a similar situation?