If U R wife throw your personal belongings out is that grounds for divorce?

She can divorce you for whatever reason she pleases. What you have to pay depends on the laws in your state. Typically you will have to pay child support for your biological or adopted children. You may have to pay alimony or spousal support if you have been married for over 10 years and you have an unfair economic advantage over her earning potential. But normally spousal support is only for a certain amount of time unless extenuating cirstances exist.