Am I asking too much from my relationship after baby?

I'm wondering if I'm asking too much? I'm a stay at home mom. My baby was born three weeks ago And my other half works Monday to Friday. Then Every night after work he worksout and does something like a cl which puts him home at 10 at night. I make dinner. Ear by myself, clean up save his food in the microwave... Then go to bed and c him for maybe 20 min which is mostly spent bickering about not waking the baby cuz I feed and am up all night. I'd like to get a little sleep. Then the weekends are "meant" for us. But the weekends come Round and we do stuff like boating but he invites so many other ppl that when I even ask him a question he doesn't even acknoledge me. I've told him I'm totally down to earth and would really enjoy maybe one night a week just watching tv and being our two kids and him eating a nice meal I cook. So he came home tonight got mine and my 7 year old hopes up to rake a nice walk to the park with baby and then changes it to let's drive and he may have to leave to go do some stuff. Which would put him home at 10 again. And then the week starts over. I keep myself busy but it would b nice to not have a time limit on our family time and not have to always have a million ppl running around like chaos on the weekends. I just want family time. I told him I didn't even care about mon to Friday do what u gotta do just give me an evening. So basically when he got my hopes up for tonight and then changed it up... He told me I was ungrateful and all I do is complain he can't make me happy , and he just wanted to get away from me. I'm like yea obviously. I just feel like someone who's here to cook clean and make babies. Idk. Any ladies with same thing going on?